Thursday Thirteen: A Suggestion to the next generation of parenting bloggers! 13 Potential Names.


Writing comes naturally to some people who can just put their thoughts down in a blog where it reads like a masterpiece, whereas some people, like myself, create content which doesn’t flow and sometimes misses the point completely. I guess what I’m getting at, is that anyone can blog! It doesn’t have to be brilliant, it doesn’t even have to be good. But if it is often, and somewhat interesting… people will come.

Worst case scenario, is that you’ve created an online journal which can bring discussion and reminiscence down the road.

I’ve been chatting with my 16-year-old son about his youth, and his obsession with food. Never a fat child, not even remotely chubby, but a big kid who was destined to be tall. As a 3-year-old, he was a touch shorter than his 5-year-old brother, and by 7, he had surpassed him and never looked back on his way to 6 foot 3.

As a child, to say he was food obsessed would have been an understatement. He dreamt about food – of not having enough food actually – and he remembered food we bought for him but hadn’t fed to him yet. It was adorable.

I told him a story about a weekend we had some friends over for the afternoon and at 3-years-old must have blurted out that he was “hungry” a good 10 times, pretty much every 25 minutes, each time his tone getting more and more concerned, and his face looking a bit sadder each time he had to point out his needs. It was a thing! I wasn’t surprised when he began to out eat me at buffets.

Since there were so many stories about food, I found this post from 13 years ago, where I wanted to start a blog for him or to talk about him and his food focus, but it would be much more fun, to offer them up as suggestions for the next generation of bloggers.

My blog title suggestions are as follows;

1) Never, ever, ever take my food away

2) D.I.L.L.I.G.A.F (Do I Look Like I Give a Fuck)

3) I’m Hungry

4) Give Me Food, Or Else

5) 2 Kids and Feeling Fine

6) Numbness Has Set In

7) Will I Ever Sleep Again

8) This USED To Be My Bed

9) Children = Space Invaders

10) Eaten Out Of House And Home

11) My Kids Love Their Parents

12) Uppie-Da-Do

13) Parenting: The Scary Ride That Never Ends.

What’s the best title for a new parent to name their blog? Love to hear some thoughts and suggestions!

Why have I blogged for the last 19 years?


I’ve been asked why it is that I blogged for such a long time / have written so many posts, and my response has always been that I do this as a journal to keep memories where I can access them.

I think I’ll need to change that response, as my kids have grown up and I’ve found another great reason why it was a smart idea to have maintained this blog.

My response now would be, so that my kids can read stories about themselves, and learn the funny, clever and unique things that they did, when young, which were captured for posterity.

My daughter, for example, recently turned 13-years-old, and she had wanted to know what time she was born, in order to mark that moment. Unfortunately, by the time she arrived, the third child, we had gotten lazy and didn’t mark down anywhere the time of her birth. I knew I had it somewhere… But couldn’t remember where.

I looked everywhere… couldn’t find it.

Then one afternoon, her and I were scrolling through the blog looking for posts about her (her name on my blog was “Berry”, but became “Boo”) when we found a post, on her birthday, with the time of her birth. I apparently, had the time to jump on my computer and document this milestone for myself, and evidentially for her.

Damn.

Not only did we solve a problem, but we also read through a bunch of posts and laughed. Such great bonding moments.

My advice to new parents remains the same… Document everything while you can. Enjoy that process, take pictures, write stories, and document milestones. One day, your kids might just thank you!

I think I’m funny…


So, I think I’m funny. That’s pretty much all that matters, right?

I was having coffee with my sister this morning and while I was making her a cup of coffee I turned on a Spotify playlist of the top 100 Canadian songs.

On comes, “Echo Beach” by Martha and the Muffins, who later became M + M. I’m fairly sure that the father of the lead singer Martha Johnson was my father’s manager for many years, but I digress.

I said to my sister, “do you remember this song!”

She grunted.

So I immediately replied that, “Echo Beach is my second favourite beach after… Son of a”

Then I started laughing until I snorted.

She wasn’t as amused, but hey…

Then came the song “Courage” by the Tragically Hip. So I said to her, before she heard the song lyrics that this song was what she was lacking…

She, of course, glared at me, and then I said to her, “which of the Wizard of Oz characters had no courage?!? The tin man had no heart… The scarecrow had no courage? Right?”

She replied, “No, I think it was the lion… Wasn’t it the lion who had no courage? What did the lion lack?”

My response… “The truth”.

Followed up by uncontrollable laughter and some snorting.

I could Google it, but was it the lion who had no courage?

Trip Down Memory Lane: Sharing Yearbooks with your Children


The other week, I found a box which had my yearbooks from all 4 years of my high school. I was on the yearbook staff for 3 of those 4 years, which meant that not only did I have a personalized yearbook, but each and every picture or article chosen for those years came across my eyes at some point in time, which made it feel that much more personal for me.

I opened up the front cover to see comments and notes written from my friends and classmates, which covered the entire front and back and many pages in between. Notes from people I still keep in touch with, and unfortunately notes from way too many people that I didn’t keep in touch with. Sadly there were notes from people who passed away way too soon.

There were some goofy notes, some general notes, and some quite meaningful and personal notes.

I left the yearbooks sitting on a table and my eldest came to hang out with his girlfriend (not girlfriend), and they decided it would be fun to look through the yearbook. So they sat down and immediately went through and found me in all my high school awkwardness and away they giggled.

They looked through the pictures and giggles some more.

Then they decided it would be fun to see what my friends wrote, and then match them up to the pictures, but…

They can’t read script.

This generation cannot read handwriting.

LLLLLooooooooooooooooollllllllllllllllllllllllll.

I watch the excitement on their faces turn to disappointment.

Thankfully, the government in Ontario is going back to teaching handwriting. This is absolutely hilarious. Yet not funny at all.

Anyone else experience this, or anything similar that we could do but this generation can’t?

The Best Order to Watch Marvel Movies?


After watching the entire Star Wars saga from movies to cartoons to spin-off’s with my eldest child, my second in command child asked me to do the same with the Marvel series. We started with Iron Man, then watched Dr. Strange, and then Iron Man 2.

Not being familiar with the characters and having watched a bunch of them in random order with the kids, or on airplanes while travelling, I asked him if there was a specific order to watch them in…

We concluded there are 3 options. Chronological order, Release order, or by series. We though right away that by series would be a bad way to watch as other characters pop in and out, so that wouldn’t be the best viewing experience, so it came down to release vs chronological.

Here is the list in chronological order.

  1. Captain America : The First Avenger.
  2. Captain Marvel
  3. Iron Man
  4. Iron Man 2
  5. The Incredible Hulk
  6. Thor
  7. The Avengers
  8. Thor: The Dark World
  9. Iron Man 3
  10. Captain America: The Winter soldier
  11. Guardians of the Galaxy
  12. Guardians of the Galaxy 2
  13. Avengers: Age of Ultron
  14. Ant Man
  15. Captain America: Civil War
  16. Black Widow
  17. Black Panther
  18. Spiderman: Homecoming
  19. Dr. Strange
  20. Thor: Ragnarok
  21. Ant Man and the Wasp
  22. Avengers: Infinity War
  23. Avengers: Endgame
  24. Shang-Chi and the Legend of the 10 Rings
  25. Spiderman: Far From Home
  26. Eternals
  27. Spiderman: No Way Home
  28. Dr. Strange: Multiverse of Madness
  29. Thor: Love and Thunder
  30. Black Panther: Wakanda Forever

Here is the list of Marvel movies and TV shows in release order:

  1. Iron Man
  2. Incredible Hulk
  3. Iron Man 2
  4. Thor
  5. Captain America: First Avenger
  6. Avengers Assemble
  7. Iron Man 3
  8. Thor: Dark World
  9. Captain America: Winter Soldier
  10. Guardians of the Galaxy
  11. Avengers: Age of Ultron
  12. Antman
  13. Captain America: Civil War
  14. Dr. Strange
  15. Guardians of the Galaxy 2
  16. Spiderman: Homecoming
  17. Thor: Ragnarok
  18. Black Panther
  19. Avengers: Infinity War
  20. Antman and Wasp
  21. Captain Marvel
  22. Avengers: End Game
  23. Spiderman: Far From Home
  24. WandaVision
  25. Falcon and the Winter Soldier
  26. Loki
  27. Black Widow
  28. Shang-Chi and the Legend of the 10 Rings
  29. Eternals
  30. Hawkeye
  31. Spiderman: No Way Home
  32. Moon Knight
  33. Dr. Strange: Multiverse of Madness
  34. Ms. Marvel
  35. Thor: Love and Thunder
  36. She Hulk
  37. Werewolf By Night
  38. Black Panther

After looking through these lists, we decided release order makes the most sense, so that’s the approach I’ll be taking.

Did I miss any? Are there any in there, either movies or TV shows which are unnecessary or out of order? I’m 3 movies in and would love some feedback, suggestions or recommendations!